Generally speaking, if you want to convince a girl to have sex with you she’s got to somewhat like you right? The age old question that many guys have wanted to know since the beginning of time is, how to get a girl to like you. It’s not a simple science and it’s certainly going to be different with every girl, but there are some fundamentals that you can do to increase your chances with any girl.
1) Be the best version of yourself
This doesn’t mean to put up a front. Girls can see through most lies like it’s their job. The last thing you want to do is come off as fake. Try to be the most outgoing version of yourself and don’t put up your guard or be reserved. Being shy is not the thing that is going to get a girl to like you. Show her that you are comfortable enough with yourself to show her who you are. She doesn’t want to see you holding back. Being mysterious will work to a point, but you have to get real sometimes. Basically, be open but don’t put on an act to impress her. If you try too hard she’ll just put you in the category with the rest of the duds that she passed on.
2) Make her feel beautiful and charming
There are many things you can do to make her feel both beautiful and charming. She is going to gravitate toward someone who makes her feel that way. Compliments on her beauty or her clothes are always a good basic rule of thumb to go to. Don’t overdo it. Just be honest about your true feelings about how she looks. It is also important to look her in the eye when she talks. Don’t just check her out. She will feel that. Pay attention to what she says and make sure she knows that you are interested in what she’s saying as well as how she looks.
3) Approach her with confidence
Confidence is another basic rule of thumb when getting a girl to like you. You absolutely have to have confidence. A confident attitude sometimes helps a guy who is not that good looking to be more desirable. A guy who is sure of himself without having an attitude is very attractive to most girls. Be careful not to get lost in the moment and become too overconfident. If you go too far, it could start working against you. The key is to be confident, but humble with all the charm you can muster.
4) Don’t push the issue
Do not push anything in any direction. If you want to go somewhere else and she doesn’t then don’t push it. The time you are taking to get to know a girl is not the time to be pushy about anything. You need to let things happen naturally and if she doesn’t want to do something you want to do then you went wrong somewhere. If you’re ready for some more touching and she’s not responding then don’t escalate the touching. If you touch her and she doesn’t pull back but doesn’t respond; stick with that level of touching until she starts giving you signs to proceed.
5) Know when to talk and when not to talk
This tip has a meaning or two behind it and it can be interpreted in a number of ways. First of all, you need to talk and fuel the conversation, but don’t talk too much and make it about you. It’s important to know when to listen to her and respond with input about the subject she’s talking about. The other meaning of this tip pertains to when you start to become intimate. There’s a certain time in the progression of your interaction with her where talking has to stop and actions speak for themselves. You could run the risk of talking yourself out of an intimate situation if you’re not careful.
Well, these 5 tips are simply the best that I can offer if you’re looking to determine how to get a girl to like you. Just follow my instructions and you shouldn’t have any problems. It’s only a matter of time before she wants it.
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