How To Find A Girlfriend

This is a subject that is only as difficult or easy as you make it. A lot of people think they have no idea how to find a girlfriend. The problem with most guys who can’t find a girlfriend is that they don’t think they can. They are defeating themselves with that attitude. Other guys shoot too high and try to find a girlfriend that is out of their league. This is all fine and good, but guys who shoot too high need to realize that, while success is always possible, your chances are greatly reduced due to reaching. Feel free to be as choosy as you want, but you need to be prepared for the girl to be just as choosy.

Embrace Yourself
Instead, you should work with what you have and realize that every guy has something different to offer. Some guys have looks that girls like. Others are lacking in physical good looks so they make up for it with charm and confidence. Some guys are defined by their style. Whatever type of guy you are, embrace it! You don’t have to try to be her idea of the perfect guy. You want her to like you for who you are. The only way she will do that is if you show her who you are. This is not the time to be reserved. This is the time to love the person that you are and she will respond to that.

Now that you know how to find a girlfriend; let’s look at where to go to find her:

Online Dating Networks
The newest, most popular and arguably the easiest way to find a girlfriend is online. Thanks to the advancement of internet technology; millions and millions of people are turning to standard and casual dating sites to hook up or find romance. This means that a huge section of the female population is now accessible from the comfort of your own home. The dating sites that I use are primarily for finding a casual encounter, but there are sites out there that specialize in more long term matchmaking. Dating sites like Match.com and apps like Tinder give users a chance to get to know each other online before they meet in person. Although, you should beware of fake profiles and spam bots contacting you. There’s also a phenomena called Catfishing in which people pose as someone else to win someone’s affections. Beware of anyone being elusive or acting strange in any way. The more you practice online dating the better you will be at recognizing the fake people.

Go To Town
The most obvious way to find a girlfriend out on the town is to go out to clubs and bars where most girls are there to hook up. Although; you can meet a prospective girlfriend just about anywhere. It could be at the coffee shop, grocery store, at the beach, at a shopping center or any public place. You should never be afraid to talk to a girl if the mood strikes you. If you feel the urge to talk to a girl, act on it. What do you have to lose? The key is to not be afraid of rejection. Who knows? You could try to pick up a girl who rejects and the girl right after her is even hotter and she shows interest

In Your Friendly Circle
Sometimes finding a girlfriend is just about opening your eyes and looking around you. She could be a friend of a friend or your brother’s co-worker. You don’t have to beg to be fixed up, but you can be ready to be in the right place at the right time. If she looks good to you and it feels right; talk to her. What’s it going to hurt to talk to her and gauge her interest during some innocent conversation?

At this point, you should have no problem what so ever finding someone to connect with for a long term relationship. If you’re still not sure you’re ready for this, then I suggest simply trying to meet and fuck someone. As you know, I’ve got more than enough solutions for that too!