Determining the right first date questions to ask that might get you laid can be strange if not handled properly. They can take a turn for the worst too, which can mean not getting laid! We have all been through those awkward first dates where no one knows what to say. You might be very compatible, but neither of you may be capable of keeping the conversation moving forward. The initial stage of getting to know someone is a difficult one.
You should always be spontaneous and live in the moment, but it won’t hurt to have some questions ready to keep a first date moving along. Here are some suggestions for questions that will keep the date moving as well as put you in the right spot for success. Do not recite these questions word for word. Take the meaning of the question and put it in your own words. Hopefully, this will help you successfully push through any awkward moments on your first date. Keep some of these in your back pocket to use should you run into a problem…
Where are you from?
This is a basic one that can be one of your first questions. It’s always good to show an interest in what kind of person she is and what her background is. I always ask this because I want to know what ethnicity I’m going to end up in bed with.
What kind of music do you like?
This question can be about any arts or entertainment that interest you. How a person entertains themselves says a lot about them. You can also find some common ground and start a conversation about your favorite band or a movie that you both like.
I’m really into ____. What kind of things are you into?
This can be any hobby or activity that you love. If you share a hobby that you both adore, that can be a good jumping-off point to kick start a more comfortable conversation. This is another thing that gets her talking about herself, but also gives you an opportunity to let her know a little bit about you.
What do you usually look for in a guy?
This one is a little more complicated because you have to be careful with the way you word it. The basic motivation of this question is to get her to tell you some traits that she likes that you might have. If you find out about something she likes, you can use that information to accentuate that part of yourself. Make sure to be subtle about it though. You don’t want her to think that you’re just imitating a guy she would like.
How are you with first dates?
This is one you should use sparingly and with caution as well. You don’t want her talking too much about other guys she has dated. This question is to help break the ice and see if there is anything that you should avoid.
What the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
I always ask this question. In the event that I get a response involving a threesome, I know I’m getting laid that night. I ask it in a very open way and in hopes of getting the girl to really open up. If she comes back with a response of not being adventurous or anything like that then you might be in trouble.
The importance of probing.
Don’t be too pushy, but you do need to show interest. Ask questions about a story she told you or about a band that she likes a lot. If you show interest and get her talking about something she loves, she will be more comfortable opening up to you.
Expanding on a subject.
Don’t leave her hanging. Try not to fall silent after she tells you a story. You can either ask questions about what she just told you about or tell a personal story that relates to hers. Don’t make her do all the work in the conversation. Keep it moving forward.
Do you want to go back to my place?
This is the trickiest of them all because it’s all about timing. Pay close attention throughout the night to her body language. If her body and her eyes tell you to go for it then do it. If not then be patient for the next date. There’s no set time on how long you will have to wait.
Good luck and let me know if you end up getting laid using these questions. I want to know if my advice works for you!
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