You made it through the first date and want to see the girl again. What do you do now? The first date was good, but how do you follow that up, especially if you didn’t get laid? You want to make sure that your second date is interesting and gives you a chance to talk and possibly “get some”. This is when you want to get to know her better and hopefully get that much closer to getting laid. Here’s a list of good second date ideas that I put together.
1) Painting with a Twist
If you’re looking for a fun way to incorporate some drinking but don’t want to make it look like you’re trying to get her wasted, then try Painting with a Twist. It’s an art lesson with booze. What’s better than that?
2) Hookah Lounge
If you know she smokes, this is a great place to take her. It’s a super relaxed environment where you can talk, grab food, and get to know each other better. Getting her to suck on something phallic will also get her thinking about sucking something else. As an added bonus, I’d like to recommend trying to add some weed to the mix if you’re into that type of stuff.
3) Wine Tasting
It’s not a common early date idea and it allows you to drink semi-heavily to get a buzz on. Everyone’s more comfortable when alcohol is involved, that’s why they call it liquid courage. Wine tastings aren’t nearly as loud as bars so you can actually have a conversation, and you have a built-in topic with the wine. Once the wine is flowing and her inhibitions are lowered it’s the perfect time to go in for the kill. I suggest buying a couple bottles to take with you to enjoy.
4) Hiking
A hiking date is a great way to talk and get some exercise. Exercise is good because it releases endorphins and relaxes you. You’ll have time to talk and get to know each other, but make sure it’s not an intense hike. She might not want to get super hardcore with anything. You don’t want to be exhausted, sweaty, and smell like ass if you go in for a kiss or even a hug.
5) Bowling
A little bowling competition is fun and it gives you an excuse to be flirty. It’s something that you can do just the two of you or invite friends if you want to. And who doesn’t like bowling, you can suck at it and it’s still fun. The worse you are the more you’ll have to talk about and bond over.
6) Cook For Her
Warning, I’d only recommend doing this if you actually know how to cook and make sure she knows this during the first date. Drop in hints about your cooking abilities. That way she’ll be interested and won’t be caught off guard when you suggest it. They say the stomach is the way to anyone’s heart, and you’ll already have her at your place. It’s easy to take her from the dining room to the bedroom.
7) Go To A Sports Event
If you know a girl is into sports, then take her to a sporting event! I do this all the time. I especially enjoy taking dates to Miami Heat games because it’s inside and a fun environment. This is good if you know she’s into sports. You get drinking and excitement all at once. The excitement of the game will put her in the mood especially if she’s had a couple strong drinks. Make sure you go to the actual event, watching it on your couch doesn’t count and will make you seem like a broke loser (not someone getting laid).
Most Importantly…
This is the best idea, find out what she likes to do. Ask questions on the first day so that you know what her interests are, and plan something you know she will like. She’ll think you care a lot, are a good listener, and that’ll get you in the sack a lot quicker. Now promise me you’re going to take these second date ideas and run with one or two of them. Try and set something up today even!
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