Dating and ADD can be a deadly combination. It can lead to never getting lucky and keep your lonely night streak running for a long, long, time. Regardless where you are on the ADD spectrum, I’m going to share some tips that will help you focus on completing the task of getting laid.
Too Many Choices?
My friends at Thrillist recently sent me an article on this and I have to give them credit for sharing some facts with me. According to a recent article published by Thrillist, many studies have been conducted which have proven that the vast number of choices we have today directly impact our ability to make selections when we have a lot of options.
This is something that I believe to be true. When presented with a limited number of choices we tend to make decisions a whole lot quicker. With 1000’s of dating apps and sites out there, people have a hard time focusing on only a few. This is one of the primary reasons why I’ve suggested that you only use the dating sites that I’ve personally ranked. Weeding out all the noise and distractions will help you stay focused on completing the task at hand…hooking up.
Yes, there are tons of girls out there using dating sites, literally millions of users. A lot of sites are oversaturated with thousands of women. Yes, they are hot women too. I’m not saying that this is a bad thing. I’m just saying that the typical reaction to the environment is bad. Here’s what happens in these situations, you join a typical dating site or app and you think that because there are so many users, you end up passing up every person that’s not perfect. You’re spending too much time trying to find The One, when you should be only focusing on find One That Wants Sex! Stop swiping left and start connecting with anyone you can because if you’re still waiting to come across the Ariana Grande nude dating profile, you’re going to be waiting for a long, long time!
Let The Pros Find The Best Sites
My main suggestion to avoid dating ADD is to let the pros find the best dating sites for you. Don’t waste your own time finding the best hookup sites. Leave that work to folks like myself that have spent thousands of hours doing it like it’s my job. You focus on getting laid and I’ll focus on continuing to test and rank sites so you don’t have to! Here’s my suggestion for this fine Saturday. If you haven’t joined one of the top 5 adult dating sites listed above, do it now. Once you’ve done so, I want you to fill out your profile and bio page completely. I then want you to focus just on finding someone to bang. Doing so without by passing more than 5 people. Then start chatting with them. See if that leads to “getting it on.” I’m sure it will!