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How to Avoid Sugar Daddy Dating Site Scams

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Since the phenomenon of internet dating has grown and evolved; it has branched off into several niches. One of the most popular ones is the sugar daddy dating site. These are sites that are geared specifically toward pairing young women with older men. Some of these sites will pair a woman with a literal sugar daddy while others just specialize in dating young women. Unfortunately; along with the popularity of this phenomenon come all the cheap imitations and scams.

I will go ahead and tell you now that almost every single one of the sugar daddy dating sites online is a scam. Many of them directly try to bleed you for membership dues and don’t provide any real young women at all. Others might be legit, but the easier they are to access and use, the easier it is for unscrupulous characters to take advantage of your need for a younger woman. Here are some ways to avoid scams on sugar daddy dating sites.

Join a popular site with excellent reviews.

Don’t join just any dating site that says they are the largest or most popular. Do research. Look for sites with customer testimonials that sound real as well as reviews from major review sites. Don’t let one or two negative reviews turn you away. You are simply looking for one where the good reviews well outweigh the bad.

Pay close attention to pictures and profiles.

It’s easier than you think to spot bogus pictures and profiles. The less a girl has filled out on her profile the less likely she is real. Also look for personal pictures and not modeling pictures. There are even some sites that allow you to do a reverse image search to see if the pictures are authentic or not. If you suspect a girl is a fraud then just ignore her. Don’t delete or block her until you know for sure. How she proceeds should tell a lot.

If it seems too good to be true; it is.

This goes along with the last tip as well. If there is a girl way out of your league contacting you and getting kinky right away then some red flags should go up. Don’t dismiss her totally because you never know. Ask her questions and wait for her response. If things are going well ask for pictures of a certain body part or angle.

Best Vacation Spots For Couples

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Going on vacation with a local fling or even a semi serious girlfriend can be an awesome time! It’s often something that we need to do in order to escalate things to a more exclusive level if that’s what you and your hookup partner are looking for. Sweep your fuckbuddy off their feet at some of the most exotic and romantic vacation spots in the world.

Here are some of the best.

Bali, Indonesia

The spas alone will take your breath away in Bali and many cater to couples experiences. Stay at one of the many resorts, eat at glorious and eclectic restaurants and enjoy the majestic landscape.

Aspen, Colorado

If you like the idea of cuddling up with your sweetheart by a roaring fire after skiing in a winter wonderland then Aspen is the destination for you. The scenic mountains are the perfect backdrop for romance.

Kauai, Hawaii

Paradise is the word that comes to mind when you think of Hawaii; especially the island of Kauai. Besides its amazing beaches you can have romantic adventures in the rainforests or in the mountains.

New York City

Watch almost any Woody Allen movie and you’ll see a handful of romantic destinations in New York City. Take a stroll through Central Park, experience Times Square or enjoy the world famous nightlife.

Bermuda

Another ocean side romantic destination where you can have a private dinner on the beach or visit the breathtaking Botanical Gardens. Enjoy the wealth of couples activities or retreat to a secluded beach.

Paris, France

Whether you take in the impressive sights and energy of the city or stroll through majestic gardens; Paris is one of the top destinations for couples.

Rome, Italy

There are plenty of chances to sweep your lover off their feet in Rome. Climb to the top of the Spanish Steps, kiss at Trevi Fountain or dine at a charming café. The possibilities are endless in Rome.

San Francisco, California

The Golden Gate Bridge isn’t the only draw of this romantic city. Visit the many charming shops or museums, bask in the energy of the city or hop over to Napa Valley that’s a short drive away.

Venice, Italy

If you have ever been to Italy you would know why there are two Italian cities on the list. Gliding through the canals on an insanely romantic Gondola ride is just one of the charms of this great city.

The Caribbean

The Caribbean is covered with romantic getaways. The only problem would be choosing which one. Go to Antigua or sail to the Virgin Islands. If you don’t find enough destinations for lovebirds here then you aren’t looking hard enough.

Now, with all that being said there are two steps that you must take to enjoy a trip at any of these destinations. Step one is finding someone to have a fling with using one of the sites we recommend and step two is planning a trip! Go for it and have fun!

Honorable mention:

You can never go wrong with the beaches of Costa Rica.  Many people will label it as a sex tourism destination, but truth be told that’s only confined to one beach in particular – (Playa Jaco) and the downtown San Jose red light district.  If you explore out to Malpais or Tamarindo, or even Nosara, you are going to find some amazing flora and fauna.  The landscape is incredible and the price is much more affordable then some other destinations.

Methods of Picking Up Black Women

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All women are beautiful in their own way, but black women have a charm and hotness all their own. White guys especially tend to like them and lust after them because they seem exotic to them. Sometimes a mate that looks talks and thinks much differently from us can be a tantalizing adventure. Black women are admired by men of all races for good reason. If you aren’t familiar with black women; these are some methods that could help you when you attempt to pick them up.

When She’s Alone

The methods that you use when a black girl is alone are entirely different than the ones you use when she is with friends. If you see a beautiful black girl sitting alone then start by trying to make eye contact. If it’s a casual thing to try your luck then move on. If she is really hot and you can’t take your eyes off of her then walk over to her and give her your best charm. Be yourself and above all be confident. She will respond to a confident man and see what he has to say. Otherwise, you are lucky to get her to look your way.

When She’s With Friends

It’s a bit tricky when approaching a black girl or any girl who is with her friends. You need to scope out her crowd and see if there is one of those friends who will embarrass a guy who approaches them. If you spot one then wait until the annoying friend steps away or wait until the girl you’re interested in separates from the group. If the group seems okay then walk by them close enough to where you get their attention. Watch for their reactions. If it’s positive then say hi. If it’s not so flattering then wait until she is away from the group and say something clever.

What To Say

Black girls don’t want to hear lines. Some of them will laugh at an obvious pick-up line. Be confident in your approach. Don’t hope that she will like you. You have to KNOW she will like you. If you give yourself that suggestion; you will be surprised at how well you are able to think of things to say. Ask her about her job or her school. Talk about the music she likes or just talk about her in general.

Now if you’re looking to meet a few local black women to have sex then you should definitely check out Black Fling!

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How to Get Yourself into a Threesome

How to Encourage Women to Have a Threesome

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Since humans have been walking the earth; men have strived to have their cake and eat it too. Some men lust after women constantly because of their libido. The next logical step in the fantasy of an insatiable guy would be to have two women at the same time. That achievement is easier said than done. There are multiple ways you might be able to get a threesome going. Here we will discuss how to encourage a woman you are with to have a threesome with another woman.

Don’t Want It Too Much

The main thing you should remember is to never appear eager. Even if you’ve been dating steady for a while and have a comfort zone with her, you want to make this about her as much as possible. Otherwise, you will just come off looking like another horny guy who wants to bang two chicks. That might be true, but you never want her to know that. Act as if you could take it or leave it. Tell her that the only time you would want to be intimate with another woman is if she were with you.

Make It Her Decision

In the end, it always has to be her decision. She can’t feel pressured into anything or she will resent you if things go wrong. You have to make sure that she is okay with it every step of the way. She will think she thought of it if you play your cards right. You might even want to be the first one to back off if you see she’s uncomfortable. Always mention it casually and don’t make it obvious that it’s something you think about every waking minute.

Encourage Any Lesbian Tendencies

If she has the slightest interest in other girls, that is to your advantage. Point out girls you think she would like and ask her what she thinks of them. If you feel brave; ask what she would like to do with them. The more you get her admiring other girls; the more she will entertain the thought of trying a threesome.

Tell Her Your Fantasy

It’s always best to take your relationship to the point where you are comfortable telling each other your sexual fantasies even when they have to do with others. Tell her what you would like to do with her and another girl. Be sure to explain a scenario that involves her receiving pleasure and not you with the other woman.  I found that a direct approached I last used while messaging a woman on this site literally opened up pandora’s box (and hers) to the idea.  I simply through it out there.  I’ll update my site later with the best types of messages that work to bait them in and get that conversation going.

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Guide to buying flowers for women

Guide To Getting Her Flowers She Will Love

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There are some exceptions, but most women love to receive flowers whether they are from a love interest, family member or friend. The kinds of flowers they like vary from woman to woman. Some women love bright, angelic looking flowers like white lilies. Others prefer the more traditional sentiment of red roses. Some even like novelty flowers like black roses if that fits their personality. Don’t think for a second that if you are just looking to have a quick fling that you shouldn’t get flowers. In fact, if you’re slick enough you’ll get her pretty flowers and write something mild yet sexual in the little card that they come with. Here’s a few pointers when it comes to getting flowers for girls…

Identify Her “Likes”

The key to getting a woman the right flowers is to pay attention to what she likes. You can do this when you are just knowing her in passing, or after a few dates you should be able to pick up on things like this.  I noticed that after a few dates with a woman I met on Seeking Arrangement, there was a pattern.  If she wears a lot of whites or bright colors like pastels; she will probably like a white flower like a lily or a white rose. Some women will have the flowers that they prefer on the print of some of their clothing. If you spot a certain flower that creeps up in her wardrobe it is usually a safe bet that she is going to like it to be given to her as a gift.

Take a Look Around

Another way to determine what type of flowers a woman likes is to look around at her place. Much like their clothing; some women use the flowers that they like in the décor of their home or apartment. Any time you see an image of the same flower or the flower itself where she lives; have an arrangement sent to her work.

Send Them To Work

That brings me to another point. When you determine what flowers she likes; send them to her work. It can be charming to have them waiting for her when she gets home or delivered to her door, but many women love to show off. It makes them feel good that a love interest will think of them and send flowers to them for all to see. She will be envied by all her female co-workers and the guys will see that she is taken.

Don’t Be Afraid To Ask Other People

Let’s say that you don’t find any signs of what types of flowers she likes. If worst comes to worst; ask an acquaintance of hers. If you are around her and her friends; pull one of them to the side and ask them what type of flowers your girlfriend or date prefer.

Red roses are the most common, but there is no flower that all women love all the way across the board. Just stay alert and you will be surprised how many women will show you or sometimes even tell you what flower is their favorite.

The important thing to remember with all of this is that you put forth an decent amount of effort to please her. If not, then your chances of getting laid may be drastically reduced. Good luck with the flower shopping!

Things You Should Do and Say on a First Date

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We have all been on those first dates that end up being a nightmare. Even the good ones can start out bad sometimes. We either feel awkward; don’t know what to say or opposing personalities take some getting used to. It’s best to have an idea of what to say going in. Make sure they are not obvious lines or clichés like talking about the weather. If you have an idea of things to talk about before your date; it will help you get past the awkward stage of getting to know a stranger.

Ask About Your Female Date

You might have heard this before, but it’s a good rule of thumb. Ask her about HER. Most people of both sexes like to talk about themselves. Especially Cougars, and especially Millionaires, just as an FYI.  It’s usually the easiest thing to talk about. While she is telling you about herself; you can interject if she tells you something about herself that relates to you. Just remember to not stay on the subject of you too long. Bring the conversation back around to how it relates to her. You will find many things in this conversation that you can branch out from. Doing this alone can sometimes help you tremendously on a first date.

Be Confident Without Being a Dick

Women love a man with confidence even if they lack in other areas. Don’t second guess yourself or you will stumble. Talk about how you feel and what interests you without worrying about whether she is interested. If you keep it short and sweet while being charming, she will be interested.

Always Honestly and Sincerely Compliment

Another common rule of thumb is to compliment her. That doesn’t mean just her clothes or how hot she is. Compliment what she is talking about and be genuine. Let her know you are listening and that you are interested in what she is talking about. This will help endear her to you and make you a memorable date.

Be a Gentleman

This is obvious, but different girls have different ideas of what gentlemanly behavior is. Some girls don’t like gentlemen at all, but that’s for another discussion. Pay attention to her and how she responds to you. Don’t adjust who you are based on her reactions, but paying attention to her sensibilities will help you get a feel of what she is like so you won’t say the wrong thing and be misunderstood.

Now, with these simple tips I’m certain that if you put forth any effort to effectively act on these ideas you will for sure increase your chances of making a stronger connection with your first date. Take my advice as I know it first hand!

Top Websites to Meet Milfs

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Okay guys, I have to admit, I love older women.  I seek them out on about every online dating website that I join.

Date a cougar

Today I highlight where you can meet women like THIS.

Why?

For starters, most men look for the youngest women they can find (of legal age) and hit on them constantly.  It’s a sheer numbers game, and the way I see it, why fight with the crowds and have a 1 in 100 chance when I can make those odds improve to say, one in five?

It’s no secret that older women love to be pleased by a younger man. It’s an ego thing, and it boosts their ego when they hook up with any man younger than they are.  I’ve had success on a few Milf dating sites, so today I’ll talk about that and let you in on my secrets to meeting older women.

Best Places to Meet Cougars Online

Milfs are essentially moms or women of a certain age (who may or may not be committed) who are looking for sex with younger men or even men their own age. Websites which cater to bringing milfs and their admirers together are very useful as they take all the hassle out of the deal and make it easy to have a casual sexual encounter. Some great websites which helps you find and date milfs in your area are mentioned below.

CougarCrush.com

I’ve used this site and had mixed success.  I posted my review here.  Read it and you’ll see about my ups and downs I’ve had.

CougarLife.com

This is the ULTIMATE cougar hook up site.  If you like MILFS, then head on over to my review and read why it’s the #1 site to meet cougars.

By the way, calling a woman a “cougar’ is usually cool.  But, I’ve had some that have gone bonkers for me actually using that term in front of them.  So be careful.  “MILF” is totally off limits, unless you meet a really cool woman who really embraces the fact you are looking for a hook up that leads to sex and not just some romantic dating deal.

You can also read my review of this site that embraces the term “milf.”

Sites I have yet to try include:

Older Women Dating.com

This site may not be the most smooth-looking website around but it is filled to the brim with great user-friendly features. It has millions of members so finding someone in your area is not going to be a challenge. The site is also really versatile as it gives good tips for long-term dating and even marriage. It is not entirely a sex site (as many of them are) and it can be used for a variety of purposes.

Milf Sex Dates

This is a no bullshit sex site which means you don’t get any claims of soul mates or relationships. This website exists only for sexual encounters so if that’s your cup of tea, this is where you need to sign up. You can make friends all over the globe as it has an extensive database and a very easy user interface to work with. There is live webcam feed for everyone to enjoy as well as public adult forums for you to discuss your experiences and desires and hence gain a feeling of community.

Milf Date

This website is great for those with minimal experience. Not only does it cost very little to maintain an account here, you can do a lot within a basic membership. This includes viewing galleries and contacting women. Local searches are quite powerful often yielding immensely useful results.

The database is pretty extensive which means that even for a new cub, the hooking up process is not rocket science. The different types of membership which are available are silver and gold and so on. You can also view the website in a multitude of languages. The interface is filled with sensuous colors which enhance the appeal of the women registered within it.

Overall, I’ve had a good run with MILFS and cougars.  I don’t really just focus on them, and instead I like this sugar daddy dating site best for hooking up on dates, and I like this site best to just get down to business.

 

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