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How I Go About Hooking Up With Strippers

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I’ve seen guys at strip clubs doing the stupidest things on earth to try to hook up with a stripper.

I’ve also seen guys at strip clubs have uncanny luck (or is it game?) hooking up with strippers.

Over time, I’ve decided to befriend the latter type and over some beers, grabbed some tips from them that I’ve thrown into my arsenal.  Fast forward a few years later, this is my official guide to picking up strippers.

How to Hook Up With Strippers

Everyone has at least one exotic dancer they have an absolute fetish for.  Maybe it’s a bubble butt, maybe it’s big tits, maybe it’s a combination of both.  Perhaps it’s her eyes, her curves, or even her personality.  Maybe she just flat out listens to your problems and that’s why you like her company!

Whatever the case may be, we’ve all been there.

Lots of guys attempt to win over a stripper with cash.  They buy a lap dance, then then go for more, and as soon as the woman has to go back on stage, they shower them with ones, fives, tens, or twenties.  These guys are going about it ALL WRONG.  Learn from their stupidity, because they are simply “Marks” according to the dancers.

If you want to bring a stripper back to your dwelling, you need to have something they want.  Nine times out of ten, it’s DRUGS.  Don’t believe me?  Read this entry at Vice.com.

Fucking a Stripper

Hooking up with a stripper is easier than you may think.

Of course, having some game, or something else of value always works.  But let’s face it, there is a huge demand for drugs, and it’s no secret strip clubs get busted for distributing drugs from time to time.  A Miami Strip Club I frequent just had this happen to them.  Read about it here.

The drug of choice will vary from dancer to dancer, and from race to race.  There is meth, (yuck), weed (okay, I’m down for that), pills (depends on what mood I’m in), ecstasy, coke, you name it.  There are strippers that crave it all, and sometimes finding a way to her panties means finding out what she’s into.  Sometimes it’s as simple as having some booze.  Others will want something expensive that they can’t readily get.

(I’m not advocating anyone to go out and do anything illegal – I’m simply speaking from experience and those of who I consult with – including VICE.  Please obey all local and federal laws.)  

Okay, disclaimer out of the way, let me proceed….

This is paraphrased from what I read on Vice’s article about banging strippers, by CHRIS NIERATKO.  It’s not my own work, but I liked it so much, and it’s so spot on, that I had to abbreviate it and add it here because it’s the ultimate guide to banging strippers.

The White Woman / Blondies:

They love cocaine.  Nieratko suggests that if they are 18-28, they were born by parents who were “disco coke whores” or “yuppie coke sluts.”  Probably the best way to put it.  Regardless, he continues, the “coke slut gene has been inherited by their daughter.”

Classic.  

Tatted White Women Stripping:

Nieratko suggests they are all into pills of some sort.  From my experiences, I agree.  The punk rock chic with tats is someone who likes the ups, downs, lefts, rights of the world.  Pills are normally cheap, and let’s face it, most men aren’t into the grunge type, so this makes this a prime target for someone looking for some easy hook ups.

African American Strippers:

I hate to fall into the stereotype, but weed is a simple solution here.  Most African American people I know smoke weed at a higher rate when compared to friends of other races.  (Fact, not an assumption.) Nieratko agrees with this, citing that it’s the “cheapest drug on the market and easiest to obtain.”  He continues to suggest you talk about how awesome the weed is by citing lavish exaggerations that the weed was featured on High Times, and that rap stars use the same stuff.

Classic! 

The Rest of the Stripping Team:  

Nieratko lumps in Asians, Latins, Europeans, and all others in this category.  Suggesting that they all are outcasts and “want love,” he says to go right for ecstasy.

I can’t ever argue against that tactic, but from my personal experience, the Miami Russians don’t need any luring other than some green backs.  Some cash as a gift, upfront, is always welcome.  I’m never a guy to just give her a tip and hope she shows up, but when she does, leaving the money out in plain view is never a bad move.  You’ll have a blast.  Latins are abundant here in South Florida, and I’ve seen them range from wanting money, to drinking, to weed, (less weed than any other category) to harder stuff.  While I like the ones that just like to drink with me (safest, and cheapest) and enjoy the surroundings, I’ve seen it all from Latin women.  Watch out though, they can get very jealous if you hook up with them and then subsequently return to the same club and romance another stripper.  They will be very catty and fight for your affection and wallet.

With any women, always be careful.  Keep your valuables locked up if entertaining at your residence.  It’s always best to get to know a female at a hotel or other spot, but of course, everyone likes their own home. Just know that s0me people would argue (I’m not saying shit!) that strippers may be mentally unstable and more prone to stealing and or creating a situation you don’t want to be a part of.

Of course, if you aren’t the strip club type, you can read reviews of best adult dating sites and join one of them – these women are just as ready to get down and dirty as most strippers, and you won’t have to be seen in a dodgy, seedy establishment.  Personally, I don’t mind it and do BOTH!

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Online Dating Profile Tips

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So, you are about to create your perfect online dating profile?  Perhaps you’ve done all your homework, readied yourself to talk about how awesome you are, and found your best pic.  Perhaps you even searched ‘online dating profile examples’ and grabbed a few tips from a cookie cutter profile from someone who is a serial online dater.

Let’s face it, you joined a online dating site or multiple sites and pay good money to save yourself the time, hassle, and effort of going out all the time looking for your next sexual partner.  Personally, I stopped with the Match.com stuff years ago because I have more success with adult sex dating sites.  These profile creation tips really go for a G-Rated dating site or an X-rated dating site, mind you.  I do pride myself in providing the best reviews of sex dating websites, but you’ll never know that after reading my profile tips for success, because again, I keep things very cordial and casual on my profile.

Creating the Perfect Online Dating Profile

Work hard and long on making your profile something captivating.  You don’t want a bare profile that people skim over and forget about after a quick look.  You could have Timberlake’s looks but if you don’t have some substance, you are dead in the water.  Many sites will give you nice ideas and fodder for creating an ideal online dating profile so it’s gotten easier over the years to come up with something that is detailed, yet not telling your life story.

  • Use The Space Given to Make Generic Statements

Don’t just fill out the easy sections that offer question and answer topics.  If a blank space is provided, use it to your ultimate advantage.  Ask yourself a rhetorical question where you know the answer is an easy one to come off your tongue.  Be creative, people like to see people trying to be different.

  • Raise Questions Within Your Profile

This is my #1 top secret trick.  Here’s an example that I took from an old profile I created where in the “About Me” section I figured, “hey, let’s try something slick.”  It worked.  Copy it, verbatim.

“On my days off I like to seize the day.  I work out, do chores around the house, and then I go to Mario’s Pizza for a slice and a beer.  Has anyone been there and just cherishes their buffalo chicken pizza?  If so, please hit me up and the next slice is on me.  You know it’s casual and busy, so there really won’t be any pressure and if we don’t connect for some reason, you can’t argue with a slice of Mario’s best selling pizza, right?  We’ll be leave happy regardless.”

What I did there was create a topic that can be mutually appreciated.  I also left it open ended.  You’d be surprised how much pizza I ate in the coming months after writing that in my profile. (I’ve since changed it to a sushi reference which is working even better.  Always test!)

  • Dreams, Goals, Desires

Again, your just looking to get someone to have a matching profile and similar interests. It could be you like to ride bikes, travel to Paris, or even do Yoga or Spinning.  That part doesn’t matter – what matters is you are creating fodder that will generate an opinion and a reaction.

  • Don’t Mention Your Past Relationships

You may be hurt and want to tell people you are on the rebound, but leave that for the movies.  It doesn’t work in real life.  People will think two things.

Online Dating Profile Tips

No woman wants to hear about how your ex left you. At least not in your online dating profile!

1)  You have recently broken up.  

Most people make attempts at getting back together.  Nobody wants the drama of that in their life.

2)  You are a psycho.  

You may not be, but mentioning your ex CAN put off that thought.  So go at this one carefully and don’t make any specific references.

With that in mind, you are now ready to head out on your first date.  For a sure thing, read my Fuckbook.net review.  It’s like hitting the fast forward button before you go on a date – the women there know what they want, as well as what you want.  You can thank me later.

Here are some examples of what not to do with your online dating profile pics.

Best Online Dating Pics

If your best photo is ten years old and doesn’t resemble the way you currently look, don’t use it. It only creates false expectations.

 

 

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How Hard do You Try at Online Dating?

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Seriously, are you in it to win it?

I created today’s post to ask people if they really are putting forth a solid effort into their online dating quest.

I look at it this way, most people who join a gym don’t use it to it’s full advantage.  Some people get all the money out of it, and more.  Others just pay the monthly dues and know they can go when they want.  This is not a way to use a gym membership.  Heck, I use mine to work out and meet women.  But that’s neither here, nor there.

Here is some online dating advice, and things to remember.

If the first few dates don’t work out, don’t be disheartened or put off, it is not quite worth putting yourself under too much pressure when going through online dating. Understand that communication gaps in not being able to assess each other may be the cause of an unsuccessful relationship.  You met them online, and probably had little communication with them before stepping out.

However, you can make sure you practice your bit to not repeat the same mistakes the next time, practicing the ways of such social relationships and learning to uphold them.

  1. Thou shall not impose

Live and let live. If you want to take down your online dating profile, it may not be the choice of your prospective partner and so hey, do not impose your thoughts and add an aura of pressure and struggle in the relationship. That will only build negativity.

  1. Do not generalize

There is no need to attempt hurting someone else’s feelings just because you haven’t been sure of your own. All five fingers are not the same and so refrain from statements like ‘you women love shopping’. The one you’re with might be more interested in reading and writing. She will just begin to think you don’t understand her and don’t want to.

  1. Inspire her

Refrain from uninteresting and nonchalant advances for asking her out. Pick something that she has mentioned she is interested in and that may be your topic or engagement for the meet up. Otherwise, she will only begin thinking, is this really all he’s interested in and is this all going to be so casual…

  1. Be an optimist

An aura of positivity, happiness, friendliness and the ‘sugar, spice and everything nice’ puts the kick and motive through to indulge with a person giving out these promising and optimistic signals. If you like you, he or she will like you too, so keep your vibe up!

  1. Curiosity kills the cat

Curiosity and a bit of ‘why don’t you find you for yourself’ may be a turn on for many men and women, but make sure you assess that about them first. Keep windows open for allowing your prospective partner to discover themselves in you, yet keeping a confident and downright sure vibe about yourself.

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Online Dating Mistakes to Avoid

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So you’re feeling lonely and can’t find a date? Thinking of going online and looking for someone suitable for yourself?  That’s a good move. However, be careful. There are many mistakes that people make and those are mistakes you should refrain from making. Don’t worry, I’m here to help you. 

  • It’s easy to have high expectations and be very choosy over the internet. This sense of being in control, of choosing, can feel really good. It makes you feel very powerful but you must fight it. If you want a real connection with someone — a relationship with someone you hope to love and will love you — you must bring your most mature and empathetic self to the front and think wisely. That means you shouldn’t say, “Ummn she’s cute but I would prefer a brunette to a blonde. Next!” You wouldn’t behave this way in person, so don’t do it online either.
  • Don’t worry about particulars; her favourite color, restaurant, bars, movies, books or places she would like to visit. Instead, take in the broad strokes; does she live in the same city? Does she like to read? Does she seem intelligent?
  • What’s important in evaluating a profile is the tone. You want to try and get to know what the person is like, which can be very difficult. Read between the line to understand how the person is; whether she is pleasant, friendly and reasonable, someone you would like to date, and someone who has your kind of temperament. Look carefully for signs of boastfulness or bitterness. Also, insincerity: the person who repeatedly claims to “absolutely love” his or her life just the way it is, to be “completely and totally” happy with everything in it. Such behaviour suggests this person might have issues being honest about her vulnerability or true intensions.
  • Ignore most of the person’s obvious claims about his or her personality, for example, “I have a sense of humor about myself” or “I’m an optimistic person.” People can be unreliable reporters about themselves. This is not because they lie but because the way they see themselves is not how others see them.
  • No matter profiles you have read online and no matter how well this girl or guy seems to correspond to your dream match, there’s still a lot you won’t be able to gather about him or her until you sit across at a coffee shop and talk. It doesn’t matter about his cute devotion to his 96-year-old grandmother. It’s about how he is as a person.

Don’t be a failure at online dating. It’s a rather easy way to meet people, but you have to play your cards right.

 

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Best First Date Places

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If you’re searching around looking for the best dating sites to join then there’s a good chance you’ll be going on a few dates soon. I’m here to share what I think are the best first date places to take someone to in an attempt to get to know each a bit. There are many places that you can take someone when you first meet them. One thing you want to remember is that you want to be able to focus on each other and not have too many distractions. Here’s a list of the best places to take your first date.

Wine & Spirits Tasting

A wine tasting or even a vodka tasting is a great event to take a first date providing you know that they drink alcohol. The alcohol loosens each other up and helps you become more open with each other. Check your local magazine or newspaper for various events that are planned.

Boating Outing

Going on a boat and spending a few hours at sea can be a great first date idea. You get to see each other shed their clothes and have some fun in the sun. However, be careful with this though, some people may have motion sickness and that makes for a bad date if that happens. Make sure you speak with  your date before doing so.

Take A Fitness Class

If you’re both members of gyms and like working out then a great first date idea is to go take a fitness class together. There are plenty of bootcamp and crosssfit classes that you can begin to enjoy together on your first date and it’s also healthy. Afterall, there’s nothing better than a hot girl in shape and likes to workout!  I spoke about how to pick up women at a gym yesterday.  Well, it’s even easier if you bring them with you!

Outdoor Picnic

Want to make a really good impression on a first date? Put some thought into planning a picnic outdoors, taking care to find out what she likes. Make it romantic and I promise this will score points for you. You can bring wine, cheese, fruit, champagne and more. The options for this first date are endless.

Local Coffee Shop

A personal favorite of mine for first encounters are to meet at a local coffee shop or a Starbucks. I love this idea for a first date option because you can meet someone during the day and determine if you like hanging around them sober. Chances are if you find them attractive sober, you’ll surely find them attractive if you’re drinking. This is also a safe public spot to meet up most likely.

Local Sports Bar

My final recommendation for a first date is to just hit the local sports bar! If you are both the social drinking type, take a few shots, have a few drinks and see where it leads you both. If you’re lucky you might be getting lucky very soon following the fun. I’ve banged so many girls doing this. It’s a simple choice and it works most of the time!

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How to Pick Up Women at the Gym

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Are you a big advocate of working out? If not, I’d suggest joining your local gym immediately because it’s a great place to pick up women. These gym bunnies are hungry for meeting guys too. That’s half the reason they are in there working their

Meeting Women in a Gym

Gym women are more approachable than you think.

butts off. I’m going to share tips with you that will tell you specifically how to pick up women at the gym.

Keep The Sexy Body Compliments To a Minimum

I know it sounds counter productive but if you want to attract women at the gym you’ve got to stop gawking over her body. I definitely suggest that you not constantly compliment the women on their bodies that you’re working on near. They want you to notice their mind, body and soul, not just their tight bodies.

Compliment Her Workout Outfit Instead

If you want to compliment one of the women at your gym, do so by complimenting on their workout clothes or headphones or sneakers. Not focusing on their body means that you’re paying attention to things other than their chest and booty.

Don’t Walk Around Like A Jacked Moron

Unless you’re trying to look like a tool in the gym, I’d suggest not walking around flexing and staring into the mirror at the gym. The girls make fun of guys like this. Just be normal and humble when working out. This attracts more women than any other method. Flexing and slamming weights around will make you look like a tool, trust me.

Become a Regular

You should start becoming a regular at the gym if you want to pick up women. They notice those that go frequently and if you want to get noticed you should start by actually showing up on a regular basis. Women love men that like to take care of their bodies daily. So get your ass in the gym daily to get noticed.

Ask Questions To Spark Conversation

Another important tip to pick women up in the gym is to ask the right questions to spark conversation. You need to try and find commonalities between you and her. Striking up a great conversation can help tremendously. There are so many different topics you can discuss too. Local gym events, holidays, weekend events, tv shows and so many more. Don’t be shy either. One thing I use is if a television show is on at the gym and a woman is watching it I always spark a conversation about the show. Keep it positive too when talking to them! No one likes a negative nelly!

Take action, get in the gym and start picking up women at your local fitness center today!

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